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A visitor to Cambodia
How can you begin to understand a country in only three months, especially
one as complicated as Cambodia? The surface is not what it seems, the
smiles often a façade, the scenery not always as beautiful as
it first appears. But slowly a hazy picture emerges of a people navigating
difficult waters to reclaim pride in themselves and their country. It's
a struggle many in others countries would find overwhelming.
After a few days in Phnom Penh, where the first impression is of charm
buried under dust, it's time to head to the temples of Angkor Wat, the
historic heart of the country and for some visitors their only experience
of Cambodia. Don't be surprised to hear a tourist loudly proclaiming
atop a temple that this is the only part of the country worth visiting.
It isn't true.
The lost glory of the temple complexes is in some ways heightened by
the poverty of the locals living around them. It's a sobering reminder
of the country's changing fortunes over the centuries and especially
in recent years. The rural setting is serene and easy to romanticize.
While the scenery may lack strong features like mountains, the constant
interplay of water and greenery grows on you to create a tranquility
that seems to date back ages. In the ricefields, water buffalo move
slowly to their own rhythm, the perfect pace in such fierce heat. Children
ride past on bicycles, giggling.
But look closer. The fields around people's homes are strewn with garbage,
including hundreds of plastic bags. Many houses are no more than shacks,
made of dried palm leaves and offering only crude protection from the
elements. And everywhere there are more mouths to feed on little or
no money: almost every shack seems to have at least one baby or toddler.
And listen to the stories. An adult who spent years as a 'buffalo boy'
looking after livestock tells of having little to eat and having to
sleep outdoors, getting wet when it rained and often falling sick. He
is still plagued by stomach problems. Or the villagers who say life
is much harder than before, partly because of climatic changes brought
about by rampant logging in nearby forests. All is not well in 'paradise.'
Some look to foreigners to ease their hardship. Tourists are presumed
to be rich, and in relative terms perhaps that's true. The penny-pinching
and hard bargaining expected in other Asian countries start to seem
cruel here. What must a motorbike driver think when you get him to buy
your water for you at the locals' price? And then, after you haggle
with him over the price of a day's ride around the temples, he drops
you off at a restaurant where you'll spend what you've just saved (and
much, much more) on dinner.
And then there are beggars, many of whom are only too happy to thrust
the stump of an arm or leg at you, a legacy of the country's turbulent
recent history. You might feel sorry for them and give money, or you
might develop 'stump fatigue' and ignore them. You might be put off
knowing that some do better from begging than from a regular job, or
that others are organized by mafia types. And do you give it to street
children, many of whom will spend it on sniffing glue? In the end, you'll
probably find your own balance and give when you feel it's appropriate
there's
no perfect answer.
But don't be surprised to be on the receiving end of kindness. Cambodians,
no matter how poor, exhibit a generous and spontaneous spirit. They're
always willing to talk to strangers, and if they hit it off with you
they might invite you to share a meal. A restaurant owner and her daughter,
on their own after the father's death, are thrilled you've come to eat
at their place. The daughter gives you a wallet she's made (and normally
sells). When you try to pay, she's almost offended, saying "No,
you can't refuse a present." It's a lesson for outsiders, who often
think every action has a price tag attached.
And always there is the gift of a smile, which is freely given and
much appreciated in return.
Cambodians want to make it on their own, despite sometimes daunting
odds. In the beach town of Sihanoukville on the southern coast, a beach
vendor called "Sothy" has just opened her shack that very
day. She's eager to improve her English. At first she asks questions,
then starts venturing her own thoughts. Resentment emerges about the
country's political status quo and the number of Vietnamese people working
in the area. She starts talking about her own situation and it becomes
clear why she looks so much older than her age, which is only 27. Abandoned
by her husband after her family ran into financial difficulty, she was
left to raise her son alone and took on a job in a garment factory near
Phnom Penh. The story of long hours, poor conditions and low wages is
not a new one, having appeared in so many overseas newspapers. But it
becomes fresh again as she recounts it, frowning and exasperated as
she brings back real memories of exhaustion and injustice.
She came to Sihanoukville to work at a cousin's beach restaurant, thinking
she could at least have some fresh air and freedom. She was exploited
again, working very long hours and paid much less than she was promised.
So now here she is further down the same beach, trying to start her
own business with her brother on borrowed money. And she's smiling,
trying despite her fatigue to be positive about the future.
Make no mistake, some Cambodians are far from poor. Phnom Penh's side
streets are dotted with new mansions, some tasteful, others screaming
new money. Expensive German cars cruise the boulevards, engaging in
the Cambodian traffic pecking order. Big cars toot their horn at motorcyclists
to get out of the way, and the motorcyclists in turn toot at cyclists.
The scarcity of traffic lights and turning lanes means it's a free-for-all
at intersections, where you often have to drive into oncoming traffic
but it turns out to be quite efficient and the generally slow speeds
make it less hair-raising.
Phnom Penh is vivid proof that Cambodia was not always poor, and was
in fact doing well until the sudden decline of a few decades ago. Look
beyond the shabbiness of neglect and the poor roads to see impressive
government offices, colonial villas, tree-lined boulevards and landmarks
like the stunning art deco Central Market, which dominates the square
where several roads meet.
And there are thousands upon thousands of apartments, many built during
the affluent 1960s. This is a truly a city of apartment dwellers, who
live above shops on even the most commercial of roads. Their air quality
may be poor thanks to the belching emissions of the traffic outside,
but their location can't be beaten. And the human scale of the architecture
is a blessing: there are currently few tall buildings.
Purists may grumble that many of the new buildings have the over-opulent
style so popular in Thailand and Vietnam, but cities always change.
The capital has interesting choices ahead as more money flows in. It
could be restored and modernized in a way that would put other Asian
cities to shame. Or it could be slowly eaten away by well-connected
property developers. Only time will tell. For now development is slowed
by economic stagnation. Will that give the city time to decide what
it wants its future to be?
And what of Cambodia's future? The capital's streets are buzzing with
activity once again, but the countryside is mired in poverty. Political
progress is promised, but fear and intimidation remain. The Khmer people
seem ready for new ideas, but there is also a strong conservativeness.
Everywhere there are possibilities but also an invisible brake being
applied, slowing down progress. There's a duality that simply defies
too much analysis and you leave accepting that Cambodia is as it is
and will find its own way into the future.
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